Conversations 101: Nailing Difficult Discussions: Breaking the Mold!
- By Carola Kleinschmidt
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In the spirit of July 2024, let's dive into the art of constructive conversations! In her illuminating book, "Persuading People Who Think They're Right" (Campus Verlag), renowned rhetoric trainer Marie-Theres Braun shares insights on the common pitfalls of conversation and how to avoid them.
Get ready to shake up the way you approach dialogues! Many of us fall into the habit of assuming we already know our partners' viewpoints, causing us to lose patience and jump straight to our own arguments. Rhetoric trainer Braun has pinpointed this as one of the biggest discussion mistakes. These rapid-fire back-and-forth exchanges can swiftly transform into heated debates, leaving tempers flared and understanding absent, whether dialoguing about work compensation or conjuring up vacation plans with a significant other.
Marie-Theres Braun advises that we nip this automatic response in the bud and instead learn to actively listen at the onset of a conversation, discovering the other person's true thoughts and intentions.
- Communication
- Productive Listening
- Salary Negotiation
- Empathetic Engagement
When preparing for a challenging discussion, keep these time-tested strategies in mind:
- Prepare and Clarify Goals: Arranging your thoughts and objectives dismisses uncertainty the moment you begin speaking.
- Form No Prejudgments: Suspend your assumptions regarding the other person's opinions and embrace their diverse viewpoints.
- Practice Active Listening: Show respect and understanding by attentively hearing and digesting the other person's arguments.
- Respond with Empathy: Validate their feelings and engage with sincerity to ensure they feel heard and valued.
- Seek Common Ground: Focus on shared interests and collaborate on resolutions to create a harmonious outcome.
Imagine conversations where misunderstandings dissipate, understandings flourish, and common ground is successfully reached. That's the transformative power of a well-navigated discussion. So let's make conversations more productive, respectful, and positive. Follow Marie-Theres Braun's expert advice and converse like a pro!
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